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So, my oldest is having poop problems- He's holding it in. Its like he doesn't want to go.... Now he needs to go and I think he's scared to. I'm trying to talk to him and see if something is bothering him or why else this could be going on, but he's not talking to me. My husband is able to get him to talk more, so I'm getting him to talk to him but until that can happen, I'm just so upset over th…